Rewite Your Story From Powerless to Powerful

Do you keep telling the same story of your “lot in life” that just isn’t serving you? I feel you, I really do. I’ve got lots of ways of describing myself, what I’m capable of and what I’m not, how my life is and how it always has been. It’s time to get super-conscious and rewrite your story from powerless to powerful so you can finally step into the life you want to live rather than assuming that is what other people do.

The last few days and even week’s have been difficult for many, but those who choose to use the time to their advantage might find it truly transformative. I personally feel this is a potent opportunity if you know where to focus your attention. I was lucky enough to have the angels show me exactly where to focus whilst I was being really Self-Full, indulging in a spot of meditation.

Let me tell you about my meditation…

I entered a room where Archangel Michael and Archangel Gabriel were waiting to greet me. In this room were four chairs. Now these weren’t just any chairs, they were big plush wing-back leather chairs in fire engine red. They were facing each other and each had a glass and chrome side table with a glass and jug of water. These were the chairs the panel of experts sit in at a symposium, or the judges on The Voice!

Because they were all facing each other, I knew it wasn’t about being judged so I assumed the former. Michael motioned me to sit down and I realised I was one of the experts! Me! But as I sat (and sat a while longer) I realised nobody else was coming and that the other chairs were still empty. Four chairs but I only chose one…

As far as the angels were concerned there were 3 other areas of my life that I believed I had no control over because I kept telling myself that I knew nothing about those things. The message was clear, I need to become the expert in all areas of my own life if I’m going to live it the way I want to. And, I’m going to have to start telling the story that way too.

One of the key areas that I’ve had a story of powerlessness around for that last few years is money. I’ve been telling myself for years that I’m not good with it and I don’t really know what to do with it. I remember back to working in the leisure industry, I used to tell my boss I would run her any department she asked, but if she put me in charge of finance I would bakrupt her inside a week! I’m still telling that same old bullshit story now and the universe is done listening to it… (enter angelic intervention stage left). One of my big red chairs was for the “expert on personal finance” because until we learn how to steward a resource, the universe cannot bring it to you.

The moment I understood the lesson I began learning everything I could about stewarding personal resources including my money, time, energy, etc. I am already willing to accept the expert label in my role as Soul-Life Alignment Specialist & Grail Guide (spirtiual teacher to the layman), but that’s only one chair. I’m not willing to identify with the old paradigm anymore. I’m rewriting my own story from powerless to powerful! If any of this resonates or sounds like you, you need to get educated in the areas you feel you have no control over.

You might be wondering what this has to do with The Grail Path? When you rewrite your story from powerless to powerful, from incompetent or victim to expert, you automatically begin to align with a new frequency that attracts the manifestations that match your description. The Grail isn’t an airy fairy spiritual concept that has no baring on your day to day reality, it is the blueprint for consciously creating your reality as heaven on earth. Both Principes 5 & 6 are about stewarding resources and Principle 1 is all about how we identify with our own worth.

(I will also be introducing The 4 Pillars of The Grail shortly, they will break down the connection between spirit and matter for you even further. Look out for that here on the website in the next few weeks).

Money is energy… and I for one am open to receiving an abundance of it and every other form of high vibe energy into my life.

So, what I really want to know is:

  • What story have you been telling yourself that isn’t working for you?
  • Which of your expert chairs are you going to learn to fill next?
  • What action are you taking to fill your learning gap in that area?
  • What would you like the new story to sound like?
  • And… how can I help?

Let me know in the comments below.

For now though, I’m wishing you a productive and powerful week ahead.

Jo x

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Find Peace In The Present & Increase Faith In The Path

I know you are wondering how this will all turn out, like the rest of us at the moment. I’m not surprised this combination about the need to find peace in the present & increase faith in the path came out of The Intuitive Chalice Oracle for the month ahead.

When the 2nd Principle of the Grail: “I AM Detached,” teams up with the calming violet of the Crown Chakra, we are being asked to remember that this moment holds so much power.

Our ability to connect to higher wisdom and consciousness is paramount to create the outcome that we want but will not be controlled by the ego mind.

Unfortunately, in it’s negative element, this combination can also suggest that we are being persuaded by the collective consciousness, into a mindset that can be detrimental to that calm and peaceful resolution we are seeking.

Find peace in the present

Depending on your situation right now, whether you are solitary or holed-up with your family, will have an enormous baring on your state of mind. If your surroundings are not comfortable or there is no escape from the noise and opinions of others, then this is going to be a particularly difficult time to find the space you need to go within and go higher, through practices like meditation, yoga or breathwork. Similarly if you are you are isolated from others entirely, too much alone time thinking and even browsing social media can create loops within the mind that get stuck on playback and don’t allow you to dissengage from the chatter.

Being present requires a balance of introversion and extroversion, so now is the time, if you haven’t done so already, to create designated space in your home and schedule to do both.

Can you create family time that involves games, dancing and singing? Can you incorporate preparing meals and household tasks as a team sport or competition? Then, at the opposite end of the spectrum, can you designate quiet time where you all go to your designated spaces/rooms for introspection and make that media-free… reading books, writing/journaling, meditation, learning new skills, working out, gardening etc. This could also be a good time for self-care and pampering.

Focus on gratitude to stay in the now

It is so easy to project into an unknown future and miss the beauty of what is surrounding us at the moment. It is just as easy to yearn for the routines you built for yourself that have been temporarily stripped away, but it is the beginning of peace to find the blessings in the current situation and speak aloud how grateful you are for them. Try incorporating this as a daily practice, not just for April but as a life commitment to train your mind to be focused on the gold hidden in every circumstance.

Increase faith in the path

As this is a spiritual oracle post, I’m going to make a wild assumption that you believe in a Higher Power and a Divine Plan. If that is the case, then consider this to be a test of faith and an opportunity to step into your soul’s care, with trust and surrender to what will be. Let go of the fearful thoughts that are fuelled by the mass media and the constant barrage of what is loosely termed “news” and instead, let your connection to the highest aspect of you steady your resolve and inform your every action from a place of love and optimism. Believe in the beauty of the path and that when you find peace in the present, you automatically increase your faith in your future.

Let’s begin this gratitude practice now… Let me know in the comments below: What 3 things you are most grateful for that bring you peace, that you might not have noticed before this began?

With Love, Jo xxx

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That Moment Just Before You Leap

I can’t escape the obvious underlying feeling at the moment that I’m about to proverbially jump off a cliff and test my wings for what feels like the first time. But what happens in that moment just before you leap?

Spiritaully speaking, the angels begin to gather and the Divine starts making plans for your landing… because you will land. How and when, are a matter of physics and the laws of the universe, like the law of consequence and the law of attraction… but the law of gravity does not negotiate no matter how hard you bargain.

For me, this moment signifies readiness to commit to The Grail Unfiltered. It means that as I go forward, the mask is coming off. The veil is being lifted and the soft underbelly of my own journey through the ups and downs of embracing its teachings and yet still falling asleep on the job as-it-were, are about to be front and centre so that I can better guide you to understand how it can only work for you, it can only change everything, if you stay conscious every step of the way.

That moment just before you leap is filled with trepidation and what ifs. It is filled with calculations and negotiations and in truth, none of that really matters because the universe has a plan of it’s own and you have no clue if that plan is for you to crash and burn as sport or for you to fly so high that you leave a mark on the sun.

I have to believe that the universe is a benign force with no intention other than to channel through me and you, the secrets it holds, in hope that humanity can find balance and re-enter the garden we were placed into before we thought we knew better.

That moment just before you leap can be much better served with prayer:

I live to serve. Let me do so with an open heart and a clear mind, free of the fears that I might fail in my mission and free of the confines of being too afraid to try. Let me enter the arena and take my place among those who stood here before in the fire of their own truth. Let my truth be Thy truth and let me be a clear channel for healing and transformation in Thy name.

So be it.

I am unsure when my next post will arrive. I am unsure what it will contain. What I am sure of, in this moment before I leap, is that a new life is beckoning me.

If you are on the verge of testing your wings, feel free to switch your fear to faith and by all means use my prayer.

Jo x

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Decide The Outcome Now

When I first began teaching The Wholly Grail back in 2012 I had no idea where I wanted to take it or how it would even be received. In fact, for a long time I simply did as Spirit asked and hoped for the best. The clear message now though, is decide the outcome now.

We are living in strange times. The world outside seems to have been turned on its head and many of us are feeling like our way of life is under serious threat. It could give rise to feelings of despondency and fear or it could give rise to a new found determination to find a fresh way of being that supports our greatest hopes and our health & wellbeing whilst also supporting our planet. This choice to focus on the vision we want for ourselves is the undercurrent for all mankind but also for me and my work.

In the last week, whilst the madness ramped up outside, I finally took the decision to go all in on a long held dream and took a leap of faith into the void to see if the universe would catch me. I had to consider all the aspects of the Grail in order to step up to the edge then let go. This is what I decided:

  • I am worthy of it… in fact I am the only one that can achieve this, because it’s my dream.
  • Me learning to fly or fall are the universe’s job… I only had to decide to be brave enough to jump and spread my wings.
  • All of my past failures were fuel for my future success… but not if I couldn’t forgive myself and others for the pain.
  • It had to be all me if I was going to do it… what everyone else thinks is just their opinion.
  • I am prepared to give up what I have to have what I need… clinging to what feels safe is the death of creativity.
  • I’m taking full responsibility for my own happiness and growth… they are the key to my well-being.
  • When I go all in, I expect those I go all in with to go all in with me… no more accepting less than I’m worth

…which brings me back to the first Principle. That is what these statements are, The 7 Principles of The Grail and they are how I decide the outcome now of my future path.

My leap was a personal triumph, a spiritual calling and a sound business decision. For you it could be anything from your health and well-being to your relationships. When you are at the beginning of a new chapter in your life, you have to decide the outcome now because if you don’t, how will you steer your ship towards the beautiful horizon you are dreaming of?

What are your intentions for the week/month/year ahead? Love yourself enough to decide the outcome now… and then take the leap of faith into the ocean of potential.

Get in touch if you need the courage to go all in!

Jo x

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Self-Care Special: It Will Happen When It’s Ready

Battling with myself just now as to whether to write a Self-Care Special blog or give it a miss this week, I recognised in myself the familiar feeling of having pushed past my limit. Being Self-Full requires that you know when to rest and to know it will happen when it’s ready, life that is.

Deadlines are great for getting stuff done, they really are, but if you are the kind of person that has trouble listening to your soul’s voice and taking heed of your body’s requirements, then that deadline is goin to be the thing that you punish yourself with time and time again.

I’ve learned to honour the voice inside that tells me when enough is enough, so before I wrote this I took a few hours off to recoup some energy after a long week of juggling my own priorities and other peoples needs. We are in strange times at present and personal wellbeing is a high priority, as is managing stress. It is a fact that stress reduces the immune system and so its wise to manage your schedule in a way supports your long term dreams as well as your immediate well-being.

Nature is showing us that it has its own priorities and deadlines at the moment and funnily enough, they cannot be negotiated with. Crisis has a certain way of putting everything into perspective in a way that forces you to conform to the natural order. Your health has a natural cycle just like Mother Nature and when she says stop and rest, if you listen and act promptly, and you’re lucky enough, stop and rest won’t mean just STOP.

Get your hands on a copy of The Self-Full Living Workbook here and start prioritising your well-being today!

Everything has a timetable and you cannot force it nor can you hold it back so you may as well just get on board and go with the flow. It will happen when it’s ready.

To help you along the way though, try the following:

The universe will get you exactly where you need to be exactly when you are supposed to be there. I truly believe that. So as you glide into this week, can you let things happen in divine right timing and get out of your own way to take care of you first?

Let’s call it a challenge.

Love, Jo x

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Turning Theory Into (Sacred) Practice

Life moves in cycles. We go through experiences that allow us to absorb new learning and as that learning crystalises into wisdom, we are asked to move into the next stage of evolution which is defined by us walking our talk, turning theory into (sacred) practice.

I say sacred practice because there is no line between the spiritual and the material when you choose the Grail Path, everything becomes as holy interaction with the divine and moreover, in every encounter can be witnessed the hand of God at work.

If you choose to walk the Grail Path you are making a commitment to your own soul to act upon the guidance that it reveals to you as and when alignment is achieved. This is often more about the balance of divine timing and personal choice points than anything else. One thing that is sure, is that you will either have to take the leap or be pushed.

Turning theory into sacred practice requires faith in an outcome that you cannot see and also in letting go of the security that you perhaps felt was in place in order to allow life to flow towards a greater expansion. Each of the magical keys to personal freedom and peace, known here as the 7 Principles of The Grail, are not just great ideas but are edicts for reclaiming inner and outer freedom through self-love when put into practice in real life.

  • Self-worth
  • Presence and focus
  • Forgiveness
  • Authenticity
  • Stewardship over ownership
  • Self-care as a priority
  • Balance and reciprocity

Only by implementing these practices into your daily experience can you truly begin to find the empowerment that you are seeking, freeing yourself from co-dependency and unfulfilling recurrent stories.

Walking your talk is going to feel uncomfortable, especially if you are changing something late in the game to fit with this new found integrity. The discomfort will fade though as you continue to refill your sacred chalice through consistency and commitment to your soul’s requirements.

When your light is rising it isn’t always a pretty process… but neither is the messy process of birth… and that’s what this is.

Keep growing.

Love, Jo x

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Are You Finding Time To Do You?

Life is going to go in swings and roundabouts, peaks and troughs. Unlike the seemlessly perfect highlights of a social media lifestyle, quite often the universe has other plans and we end up neck deep in stuff that needs our attention and none of it seems to be ours. The question is, while it’s all happening, are you finding time to do you?

Self-Full Living isn’t about placing yourself in a bubble and becoming oblivious to the outside world and what it appears to need from you, its about finding balance between the demands of life, family and community and your own well-being, hopes, wishes and dreams.

In the last week or so, everything has gone a bit tits-up with my schedule as I’ve put everything on hold to renovate part of my mum’s house to make it accessible for her to come home from residential care. She’s very elderly now and her mobility is negligible. That means that I’ve been humping heavy furniture around, painting and decorating, de-cluttering years of stuff. My own goals have all had to go on hold, but I refuse to put my own health and self-care needs on hold because that just doesnt benefit anyone, including mum.

When you understand your own worth (Principle 1) and that taking care of your own well-being is the greatest gift you can give to anyone you love or who loves you (Principle 6), you begin to reconsider your actions, drop the martyrdom quest and start seeking win/win solutions for everyone involved. The biggest win/win you can gift the world is to aks yourself that question: are you taking time to do you? If the answer is no then you need to prioritise that now… no, not when the emergency or urgency is over, right now.

It doesn’t have to be dramatic or even noticeable to anyone else, simply take the time to eat well, eat fresh; rest when you are tired; spend 5 mins in meditation; stretch; hydrate. Do all of this deliberately and mindfully and pay attention to what your body needs, it will tell you (catch it on the whisper though or you will know its too little, too late).

Taking time to do you is not an indulgence, its a sacred contract you have with your own Source. Honour it. Honour yourself.

What is your mind, body and spirit asking of you today and how are you going to fulfill it’s request?

Love, Jo x

P.S. Here is the link to my Self-Full Living Workbook to help you understand your patterns and gaps in your current self-care practices. You might find it useful.

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P.P.P.S. And your alignment task is being uncovered here in the Alignment Reading.

March Oracle – Uprooted But excited!

Wow! If you needed a push to get moving then this is it. The Intuitive Chalice Oracle is signaling that March is a month that you maybe uprooted but excited… and energized to boot!

This combination of Principle 5: I AM Liberated, and the grounding energy of the red root chakra are announcing that what once held you physically or geographically stuck, is now no longer an issue. In fact, it feels as though the universe is actually giving you a push!

A few years ago I was uprooted from my home when my landlord had to sell the property at short notice. It was a really anxious time for me. I’m a Taurus and we don’t like to be unearthed as it were. But this doesnt feel like that, it feels exciting and adventurous, so as much as you might feel a few nerves at being ungrounded temporarily, it feels as though this is something you’ve worked for and hard won.

Principle 5 is about releasing anything that holds you back, especially so called material assets, so it could portend the sale of a house or a move of some kind but it could also be a change of jobs, or just responsibilities that have kept you stuck until now that are finally being released.

Both these energies are about structure and stability being disrupted, so please do take the time to find your own centre and balance adventure with self-care. Take the time to meditate and breathe deeply, remembering that your true home is within.

I feel the energy of expansion with these cards and as I drew the combination I felt an inner expression of “Finally!” Admittedly it was followed by a slight reservation of “Now leaving your comfort zone…” but you can’t have both and not feel torn so its a good time to also get super clear on your intentions for your life going forward.

Step forward fearlessly but slowly. This is unfamiliar territory but it’s also unencumbered and freeing. Health, vitality and wellbeing will follow you as you follow your bliss, uprooted but excited!

Enjoy!

Love, Jo x

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Why FOMO Will Kill Your MOJO!

Have you ever been in that situation where you are so scared of missing what’s available, that you expend all of your energy saying yes to everyone and everything? Let me tell you why FOMO will kill your MOJO!

The truth is, yes, the world is full of shiny things that we all want to experience, but I know that you’ve heard the expression “all that glitters is not gold.” In Grail terms, to maintain your vital essence, you must invest in only the things that will in turn invest in you, i.e. give back to you in a form that nourishes your spirit.

Principle 7: I AM Open-Hearted is focused on the concept of balance and your mojo is dependent on your ability to steward your inner resources. What that means is, if you are always putting out and not open to receive what needs to come in, you will be depleted as fast as you can say yes to the next thing that is presented to you.

Discernment is key to developing your spiritual mojo muscle. You have to get really good at saying no to what doesn’t ultimately serve you. If you have been experiencing mojo fatigue through prolonged FOMO (fear of missing out), then you have already had enough experience of what serves and what doesn’t. Think about all the times you said yes and then came away feeling disappointed. All the times you put energy into something or someone to realise that you got nothing out of it that was valuable. Let me give you an example: I’ve been going to MBS events for years. Sometimes to browse, sometimes to attend workshops. Every time I go of late, I leave feeling like I spent money I didn’t have on stuff that didn’t serve and instead of coming away with a sense of upliftment, I was left feeling drained and disappointed. I keep going because I have FOMO… “what if there is something new and exciting this time?”

Of course that’s just my story, I still wholehearted believe that MBS shows are a treasure chest of teachers and healers if you are just beginning this journey… in fact I can highly recommend a few!

Hearing from a few people this week feeling overwhelm and myself being a Grail teacher encouraging Self-Full Living, I have to tell you that your choices need to reflect your ultimate goals. Ask yourself always: “Does this opportunity take me closer to where I want to be?” If the answer is yes, then go for it, because the progress itself will be enough to fuel up your Grail cup and reinvigorate your waning mojo, the benefits are obvious and appropriate. If however the choice before you is merely a distraction from what’s not working in your life then you will find that once you have been distracted and its over, you will have to go back to what’s not working in your life and have gained nothing, potentially having instead used up vital resources, energetic and material, in order to be distracted.

FOMO is real, but so is balance. If you want to know the real reason FOMO will kill your mojo, its that you haven’t yet honed in on what it is you are actually trying to achieve. You get to choose what will serve your highest good and if it isn’t filling you up, it’s simply emptying you out.

Love, Jo x

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How To Glide Through A Frequency Upgrade

I’m sure that, if you are living a spiritually based life, you have heard mention of raising your vibration or frequency and that doing so will initiate changes in your everyday life. But generally, what do we really understand what those changes entail and how to glide through a frequency upgrade?

Recently I have had so many personal shifts in frequency, some planned, some forced upon me by the universe’s perverse sense of irony, that I have had to become an expert in unconditional acceptance of what is. That’s not to say that I have become defeatist in any way or settled for less than I’m worth, actually quite the opposite…

Fully integrating the Grail teachings means that I have accepted that some things are not meant to be part of my life. Some things and some people are no longer compatible with my new understanding of what is best for me. I’ve accepted that I don’t have to accept certain things, and that I absolutely can expect more for myself and from others that I associate with. That being said, not everyone wants to upgrade at the same speed or the same level. Many would prefer that I keep being a pushover and keep tolerating disrespectful behaviour, keep allowing my boundaries to be crossed and my energy siphoned off for their own ends. It’s these people that I have accepted are no longer my people.

When you are ready to understand how to glide through a frequency upgrade, you are going to start feeling like you want to scream every time you become acutely aware that something is out of alignment with your own inner peace. At these times you have a decision to make: you can either rail against the discrepancy (which incidentally allows your frequency to diminish through kicking off at the unfairness of it all and the down right disrespect for your needs), or you can remain humble, respectful and compassionate but choose to either address the issue calmly or distance yourself from the misaligned person, situation (or item) if they are unapproachable or non-compliant.

There are 4 components to the Grail that will show you how to glide through a frequency upgrade:

  • Principle 1 is your touchstone to your own self-worth and what you believe you deserve.
  • Principle 2 holds you in the present moment, letting go of all past history and future illusion that pulls you from your peace.
  • Principle 5 allows you to understand freedom from constraint means letting go of what holds you captive.
  • Principle 7 embraces all in unconditional reciprocity and balance.

You are worthy of the highest expression of your own life’s potential in this moment and to receive the reflection of that from your environment, loved ones, peers and friends. You must be prepared to lose what is less than what you hope to gain.

Let go of the unworthy and the incompatible to create space for the harmonious.

If you want to know the simplest explantion of how to glide through a frequency upgrade… don’t cling to what doesn’t serve you in the hope that it will change, but do keep your heart open as you continue on your way then if it, or they, experience an vibrational upgrade of their own, you can welcome back into the harmonious, compassionate fold without need for recourse.

Jo x

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