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Monday Mind Manoeuvre – Remember Who You Are

I will finish the last two parts of the Modus Operandi series a little later but something came up that I thought important enough and wanted to explore, it’s to do with losing yourself in a relationship and how to remember who you are.

Now before I go any further I should mention that I have a someone special and he tends to read all my posts (and then deny it) so on that note I want to say this is nothing to do with he and I (lest he panic that we have an problem) and simply about the plethora of counselling I’ve been doing in the last few days in every direction as well as observing among the masses on social media etcetera.

Now let me first get you into Wholly Grail territory by reintroducing Principle 1: I AM God, along with Principle 7: I AM Open-Hearted. Theses two Principles are the basis of relating from an empowered state.

What you observe in your outer world is a reflection of how you feel in your inner world. Your outer world often affects how you feel… catch 22 you might think, but here’s the thing: how you feel is a result of what you think about what you perceive, so then it stands to reason that if you choose different thoughts the feelings will alter which will in turn transform what we observe.

That sounds complicated but truly when you remember nothing is personal even when it is aimed at you, it is just a projection of the thoughts and feelings of another that you receive according to your state of inner peace and empowerment. If you are feeling like a victim then everything will seem to be an attack, if you are feeling like a hero everything will appear to be an opportunity for learning and healing even if the outer circumstances are identical in each case.

Principle 1 asks that you see yourself as a spark of divinity and that you see that same light in everybody else regardless of the outer conditions.

Principle 7 asks that you let go of all attachments in order that healing may occur. This doesn’t mean walking away from relationships that are nurturing and mutually beneficial ┬ámost of the time, it means letting go of the fear that they might end. All things end, the question is, do you want to squeeze the life out of it quickly by gripping, manipulating and controlling or do you want to love and laugh and learn your way until death do you part?… That’s what it means: death simply means an ending, any ending.

Drop the victim stance by recognising you hold all the power… over yourself and what you choose to place your attention on. If you contrive to fix, change or manipulate the significant other in your partnership to see, do or be what you want then you are trying to exert your power over another and the battle will commence or the rift will widen… let them be who they are, even if they are currently in victim mode, don’t ever be tempted to meet them at the bottom, instead lift them with your example of understanding, compassion and gently hold the space for them to step out of their shadow and into the light where you will be waiting with open arms and an open heart… and maybe next time you slide down the scale and forget who you are they will do you the same courtesy.

Wishing you beautiful nurturing relationships today and always.

Big love until later… x

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Saturday Oracle – Warrior Priestess

As the Full Moon in Virgo takes centre stage this weekend so too does the emergence of the inner goddess, the warrior priestess, and with her a full blown sexual revolution.

Principle 3: I AM Human takes full ownership of the orange sacral chakra in this combination and as a result the shadow aspect of hidden desire is brought fully into the light celebrating the physical human self in sacred sexuality. Playful and every-so-slightly naughty Fae energy is driving this full week leading up to St Patrick’s Day next weekend, and I have a sneaking suspicion that the Goddess Aine is asserting herself wherever she can (but more about that later in the week).

For too long femininity has been required to fit into a ┬áneat little box, remaining demure, weak, downtrodden and conforming to the social expectations of “stand like this” “present yourself like that” and any attempt to claim one’s full powerful has been met with disdain and often shame… no more.

As this sweeping energy gathers momentum it brings with it a continuing theme of innocence, not in the childlike sense but more aligned with a lack of contrivance. Owning your power, your gorgeous, spectacular, sexy self is not about suppressing anyone else, it has nothing to do with the emasculation of our men folk, on the contrary, those men who truly own their own inner god/warrior priest (which this energy also anticipates) are not threatened by the surge of power shown by their women, they are positively inspired and turned on by it.

It’s time to let go of the constraints and revel in your humanity. Rising to this call to unleash your shadow can make you irresistible as long as you don’t try to be all things to all people… some won’t like you being so overt, some will attempt to put you back in your box… forgive yourself for being afraid up until this point, forgive them for being afraid of what comes next and let loose the kundalini rising within.

This week is not about being irresponsible, it’s about being powerful and allowing the fun version of you that hasn’t been seen in a long time to get up and get down… after all, she’s magical.

Unleash your warrior priestess and reclaim all of who you are.

More next week… x