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January Grail Oracle – You Are Embodied Divinity

Entering into a new decade, we begin with the first Principle of The Wholly Grail and combine it with the vital fire of the Sacral Chakra. This potent combination is requesting that you check in with your own inner union of flesh and spirit, to ensure that you fully remember you are embodied divinity, in preparation for the coming together of two souls.

Is this Oracle predicting a new relationship? For some perhaps but it has deeper meaning and even more profound healing possibilities bound up in its energy.

There is power in knowing that you are embodied divinity. This kind of inner union puts others on notice that you are no longer willing to settle for less than you are worth, no longer willing to allow yourself to be sold short of absolute integrity, first from yourself and then from others.

When you begin to recognise where in your life you have allowed others to dishonour or disrespect you, you have a choice, to consider that you only deserved such treatment or to rise up and take back what is yours. This combination confirms that you are ready to do the latter and reclaim your name, your body and your life as holy.

The sacral chakra when fully healed invites sacred connections in which we may continue to heal and grow, to explore the realms of intimacy to a whole new level of trust and mutual honouring. If you are still carrying the wounded shadow in this chakra though, you will attract to you a dark mirror in the form of an unhealthy relationship that confirms and reaffirms the very wound you were trying to heal. That being the case, this oracle is sent as advice to prepare the way for mutual honouring through self-love and inner healing, through letting go, releasing, detaching from all that isn’t worthy of your divine soul and through practicing seeing yourself through angels eyes.

If you really began to understand who you are, you would accept nothing less than pure connections based in love and in light.

Raise your frequency, raise your awareness of who you allow to penetrate your energy field, raise your standards and most importantly do not ignore the red flags that remind you of the lessons you have already endured.

This is not a message to raise your shields though, unconditional love for yourself and the courage to say no and walk away from lower vibrations is all it takes to set new boundaries and create new, nurturing relationships.

Remember you are embodied divinity… Become the person you want to be around and then the people you want to be around will be magnetised towards you. You have nothing to prove, it’s your turn to run the auditions now.

Love, Jo x

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Weekly Oracle – Unapologetically You

The expected, socially recognisable and acceptable version of you might be brought into question this week when you embrace your innate sexuality and sensuality in a drive to become more balanced between mind, body and spirit.

This shift is neither planned nor in any way contrived but instead flows from a natural healing of the rift between who you are and who the world assumes you to be, between the thought-led, over-analysing, living from the neck up version of you to the instinctual, vital, physical being that shifts fully into the realm of having a human experience.

Principle 3: I AM Human, is the aspect of The Wholly Grail that deals with forgiveness for the seemingly unacceptable traits and behaviours that we as human beings often display, but this is a surface representation of a much deeper truth held within this Principle, a truth that belies the social norm as a mere construct we invented so nobody would be offended or made to feel uncomfortable by other members of the species. The truth is that all behaviour stems from somewhere and from something, a trigger fuelled by either love or by fear, therefore nothing is ever actually wrong.

I must ask the question then: does the love of Self somehow overwrite the love of others or vice versa? (Just ponder it for a moment).

The vibrant orange of the sacral chakra is positively fizzing as this week progresses, bringing your natural sexy-self to the fore in ways that, in order to accommodate, you must turn a blind eye to the world’s expectations of you and shine out what has been hidden for an age… confidence, freedom, playfulness, alluring charm, flirty abandon… it’s time to be unapologetically you.

If it rains this week, consider taking off your shoes just to dance through the warm puddles… kiss like you mean it, beam smiles at strangers, let the wind blow your skirt up, go skinny dipping, make glorious love, dive deep into your senses…

… or you could stay locked in your headspace and thoughts that you will be judged for being vulgar and so forcibly removed from this Garden of Eden just because you took a huge bite of that big juicy apple and let the juice run down your chin whilst laughing your sexy arse off!

This week’s oracle is a reminder that you are perfect, beautiful, unique and capable of connecting with your whole being not just through a meeting of minds. Get back in your body and be unapologetically you.

More next week… x

Saturday Oracle – Like The Wind Blows

Without boundaries, without shackles. Love like the wind blows.

Intense energy arriving this week as we are greeted by this dynamic duo of Principle 7: I AM Open-Hearted, with an illumined orange sacral chakra. Unmistakably a sacred partnership that is asking each party to remove all walls and obstacles to let love love blossom.

This week you may find yourself in a very raw vulnerable state as you are asked to open wide all doors and windows to your heart allowing the energy of love to blow through, just like the wind.

As we know all too well of late, wind can be fierce and uncompromising, destroying lives and families… but it can also be soft and gentle bringing fresh air into stagnant places, thoughts, ideas and regimes. Love is the same. Where there are no obstacles and no expectations the intensity is irrelevant, only resistance creates damage. Love is a benign force, it has no agenda, it’s only intention is to move like the wind blows: spread, and be shared, neither grasped at nor rejected, no increase nor depletion… there cannot be more or less love, only the speed and direction of flow increases or slows down in relation to your ability to receive and transmit seems to amplify the universal elixir.

As you enter this week do so understanding that another is offering you love (directing the flow towards you). It may not arrive in the form you hoped for, but it is in no way any less of a gift than in any other form. You have a choice to gratefully and graciously receive and transmit the life giving, transformative juice or you can close the windows and doors to your heart space and be battered by the impact caused by obstruction… that’s right, rejecting love causes pain.

I’m not suggesting you forget your discernment and encourage unwanted advances but that isn’t what this week is predicting. No encouragement is necessary for the genuine sacred union of souls indicated by this combination.

However love shows up for you this week, learning to give and receive in equal measure will bring positive change into your life, relationships, communication and creativity.

More next week… x

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Saturday Oracle – Pure Connection

This combination feels familiar and although it has an overall beautiful appearance to it, something within me has been putting off delivering its message today… That’s the problem: delivering a message means complete surrender to the possibility that nothing will ever be the same again.

As Principle 7: I AM Open-Hearted, cosies up to the vibrant orange sacral chakra softening its abrasive desire and encouraging pure connection, the vulnerability involved in that type of interaction reaches it zenith and can become unbearable for those not ready to give up control to another being.

Human relationships excel to another dimension this week beginning with an admission. Out there on a limb hoping that showing your hand and your feelings will not make you a prime target for rejection or ridicule is the only place where another can meet you half way. Risking your most sensitive nature for the promise of this pure connection is not new to you, but having been left there hanging in the past or worse, met there only to be later discarded when you were already all-in has made you wary of whether the risk is worth taking at all… but you know it is.

With the new moon total eclipse in Leo on Monday and six retrograde planets until Thursday you would be forgiven for feeling that level of uncertainty, but the synchronicity of the heavens is pushing you past the finish line in more than one area of your life towards a completely new storyline… and nothing quite transforms the story of your life like the introduction of a new co-star.

Put desire to one side for a moment and instead look at this connection as something deeper and more fundamental, once the initial admission is over this connection is soul level, familial, comfortable… not in an old slipper kind of way but in a missing piece kind of way. As it is based on Principle 7 where giving and receiving are completely balanced, it also has a sense of the traditional, where roles are definitive, respected and appreciated, cooperation and companionship, support and encouragement form the basis and foundation for divine union. This is a connection as old as time, conducted between the realms of the physical and the non-physical where a psychic extra-sensory form of communication exists.

People usually only dream of this kind of love… it is possible… but only if one or both are willing to step out on that limb, drop the defences and declare what hides inside the heart.

It probably won’t feel like news… each is fully aware on a higher level… each is simply waiting for the other to overcome fear, overcome history, overcome personal baggage and the reasons why not, replacing the detritus with the cleansing breath of faith.

Archangel Chamuel: the Angel of Destiny has lined you up with this missing piece of your soul’s mission and is waiting patiently for you to choose reunification. Ask him for help, courage and opportunity this week.

If your Mr or Mrs Right, hasn’t yet made an appearance, now is the time for you to call out for your soul mate… you can be sure that they too are calling out for you. Chamuel will help if you ask.

More next week… x

 

 

Saturday Oracle – Emerging Into Innocence

I feel like this is a familiar combination. I didn’t wander back through the archives to see whether it has come up before, when or how often, simply because if it feels like it fits the natural flow of events then there’s no reason to question why the two cards screamed to be chosen… and it is an oh so natural progression from the last few days of embracing one’s own truth.

Principle 3: I AM Human, finds its mate this week in the vibrant orange of the sacral chakra and with it the unnecessary hiding stops.

I AM Human deals with the fallibility and frailty of the human condition in this case invoking emotions such as shame and guilt but it is also the Principle that deals most closely with the elements of grace known as forgiveness and acceptance. When placed in the context of sacral energy this then applies to sexuality, intimacy and social positioning. When you apply grace to all of those, something extraordinary occurs…

The arrival of this combination this week then shows the emergence of innocence as we fully allow our spiritual selves to embody our physical selves and let the light shine through the body itself.

Until now we may have been suppressed by those feelings of guilt and shame about our sexuality and seen ourselves as less than beautiful, less than divine: as human, and therefore somehow unclean or unloveable… but now the childlike, innocent wonder of pure nakedness must be appreciated. Nakedness not just in the sense of having no clothes, but in the sense of having nothing to hide.

This emergence of innocence has such power inherent within it as you allow yourself to begin to revel in the experiential interplay of senses, almost as if you have been given a human body for the first time and you can see through new eyes that everything is in high definition, hear with ultra-clarity the musicality in even a gentle breeze. Now the smell of everything is exciting, arousing memories and inciting new inspiration… as I found just days ago the taste of pure clean water has become so intoxicating to me that you would assume I had never taken a sip in my life. Be prepared to feel… yes feel everything as your nerve endings become alive with the light shining through you and resulting in you emanating a magnetic field that becomes irresistible to all life… You have become life itself.

I have titled this piece ’emerging into innocence’ for a very good reason: there is nothing contrived about this immensely attractive state you are entering into, there is nothing about it that is founded in ego, Principle 3 is in its positive format here, ensuring that the ego is falling asleep and grace has flooded your system allowing you to be who you are in your most natural state and as a result you are falling completely in love… with you.

Only when you fall in love with all that you are, do you step into the fullness of the divine plan for your physical life here.

This week you can continue the path that began halfway through last week when you stopped judging yourself and started playing with the gift of a physical life and all its blessings, in the same way a child prefers the simplicity of the cardboard box the gift came in than the complex possessions it housed. No matter how plain, basic or even battered you see your body as (or your cardboard box), you are beautiful… in fact you are fascinating and everything you encounter this week can be fascinating too when you allow yourself to experience intensity with the intention of discovery.

Rediscover yourself this week. When you get out of your own way and your divine spirit fully embodies your physical form, you are not just attractive… You become incredible… and seriously sexy.

Have a great week… x

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Saturday Oracle – Entering Blissful Partnership

The energy coming from the oracle cards was excruciating, they were screaming “pick me, pick me!” After a week of high emotion, full moon shenanigans and rebellious tendencies, I’d simmered down enough not to argue with them. I made a promise when I began doing these oracle forecasts that I would honour whatever popped up regardless of how uncomfortable the combinations… the first set is the right set, no manipulating results to suit agendas, what would be the point?

This week is no exception as Principle 7: I AM Open-Hearted partners literally with the vibrant orange sacral chakra… this is the combination of Divine or Sacred Marriage.

Divine Marriage is described in many ways and often as an alchemical balance of the masculine and feminine principles within, but make no mistake, this is not a metaphorical marriage, this is the combination of entering into or the deepening of an intimate relationship.

Entering into blissful partnership at least speaks to the beautiful nature of this affair of the mind, body and soul, as Principle 7 is the card of balanced giving and receiving. It holds within its remit the essence of unconditional love which allows each partner to be who they are without needing to hide a part of themselves in order to be accepted. This balance and the nurturing of individuality means that the heart flame within each burns brighter as a result of the union.

The sacral chakra is the sexual centre of the energy system and the creative energy here can be possessive meaning that it forms attachments easier and faster than any other chakra. Supported by Principle 7 however, those attachments are healthy and mutual.

So what exactly can we expect?

Where there has been separation, there will now be union. Where there has been uncertainty, there will now be reassurance. Where there has been divergent interests and agendas there will now be alignment. If you are in a relationship this is a week where you will make commitments to each other and feel safe enough to express love in all its forms and safe enough to receive love in all its forms. If you are not yet in a relationship and are looking to connect with a soul mate or twin flame, this combination speaks to your readiness to welcome the energy of romantic love into your life.

Fertility is also a factor here as the sacral energy is bursting with the spark of life ready to transform into a roaring fire, whether that’s the creation of a new idea, project or actual baby remains to be seen but you can be sure that the union between you and another will be a fruitful one one way or another.

Be careful not to throw this energy away on meaningless encounters, such dalliances will lead you to disappointment. Only real love is worthy of you now.

Be open, be ready.

More next week… x

For Being Wild And Free

When I posted the oracle reading at the weekend for this week, you might remember a mere mention of St Patrick’s Day and the Fae Goddess Aine, sometimes associated with or as the Faerie Queen Dana. Legends vary about the queen of the faeries but one legend has it that St Patrick was revered for having banished the Tuatha De Danan (Children of Dana or little people) from Ireland. Aine, instead of actually leaving, simply raised her vibration and made herself and her kin folk invisible to avoid conflict. All this because Paddy and his fellow invaders feared the Tuatha for being wild and free. The Fae found a way to co-exist anyway.

Of course the validity of the stories are questionable and I’m not really worried about the source of a good yarn, perhaps spun by a leprechaun of Tuatha origin who had one too many pints of Guinness before planting a smackeroony on the Blarney Stone… The point is thus: some old geezer with a stilted idea of what is acceptable behaviour decided to demonize a whole race because he wasn’t prepared to learn more about what it means to allow everyone to breathe their own uniqueness.

Now in other legends, Aine’s sexuality is suppressed and even oppressed by an older man who wants to control her… The story is one of abuse and not at all pleasant so I won’t elaborate but all in all the moral is: conform, reform, perform… and do it by someone else’s rules and expectations or be punished/banished.

The Wholly Grail’s Principles 1 through 7 all have a universal clause, what this means is although each Principle begins with the words “I AM” it applies to all, so whilst I AM, YOU ARE too. The problems really kick in when you lose sight of the fact that “you are.” When you feel less than, it is human nature to try to diminish or disempower another in order to level the field or to feel better about one’s own inadequacies. In truth the only power you ever need is in abundant supply and readily available from Source. That wild and free, pure innocence of knowing whose child you actually are, to the untrained eye can look like rebellion, disruption, non-conformist, far-too-lairy-for-words, who-do-you-think-you-are, I’ll-pull-you-down-a-peg-or-two shenanigans and strikes  fear in those who wish to control it.

Now, as you watch or participate in this St Patrick’s Day festivities, count how many leprechauns and leprechaun hats you see… The Tuatha had the last laugh because they successfully integrated themselves into the long forgotten and rewritten story as the hero of the hour… Aine/Dana left a legacy of magic and luck that means when the world celebrates on March 17th, it has nothing to do with a mean fella banishing the Fae Folk from the Emerald Isle and everything to do with embracing the wild pure spirit (and the black stuff).

Just as I finished writing this, my faerie guide Harvey, (short for Harv ‘a Mo, because he’s always trying to get me to think before I act… ha!) funnily enough also a ginger bearded little Irish dude in a green top hat, started telling me a joke…. “Did you hear the one about the Irish Saint who thought he defeated the Faerie Goddess…”

What was I waffling on about?

More later… x

Saturday Oracle – Warrior Priestess

As the Full Moon in Virgo takes centre stage this weekend so too does the emergence of the inner goddess, the warrior priestess, and with her a full blown sexual revolution.

Principle 3: I AM Human takes full ownership of the orange sacral chakra in this combination and as a result the shadow aspect of hidden desire is brought fully into the light celebrating the physical human self in sacred sexuality. Playful and every-so-slightly naughty Fae energy is driving this full week leading up to St Patrick’s Day next weekend, and I have a sneaking suspicion that the Goddess Aine is asserting herself wherever she can (but more about that later in the week).

For too long femininity has been required to fit into a  neat little box, remaining demure, weak, downtrodden and conforming to the social expectations of “stand like this” “present yourself like that” and any attempt to claim one’s full powerful has been met with disdain and often shame… no more.

As this sweeping energy gathers momentum it brings with it a continuing theme of innocence, not in the childlike sense but more aligned with a lack of contrivance. Owning your power, your gorgeous, spectacular, sexy self is not about suppressing anyone else, it has nothing to do with the emasculation of our men folk, on the contrary, those men who truly own their own inner god/warrior priest (which this energy also anticipates) are not threatened by the surge of power shown by their women, they are positively inspired and turned on by it.

It’s time to let go of the constraints and revel in your humanity. Rising to this call to unleash your shadow can make you irresistible as long as you don’t try to be all things to all people… some won’t like you being so overt, some will attempt to put you back in your box… forgive yourself for being afraid up until this point, forgive them for being afraid of what comes next and let loose the kundalini rising within.

This week is not about being irresponsible, it’s about being powerful and allowing the fun version of you that hasn’t been seen in a long time to get up and get down… after all, she’s magical.

Unleash your warrior priestess and reclaim all of who you are.

More next week… x